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Janet Simpson MBACP (Accred.), PGCE, BSc (Hons) Counselling Adult & Couples, Child Counselling Level 4 (Cert), Psychosexual (Cert)
Janet is a UK based Sex Talk Educator & Relationship Therapist. Her first profession was in teaching. Janet’s work is influenced by her experiences as an adoptee, being a partner of a porn & sex addict and her love of children.
Janet has worked as a Child Counsellor in primary schools, adult counsellor in Alder Hey Hospital and a School Safeguarding Supervisor. She has her own private Therapy practice.
Janet brings a wealth of expertise into her Therapy & bespoke Sex Talk Education training for parents & professionals around relationships, porn awareness and Sex Talk confidence & competency.
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Are you a PLEASER and want out?
A Therapeutic Coaching Programme to help you create a new version of yourself that feels FREE in any relationship.
A space to strip away all of life's myths and start to work through blocks to your liberation - a place to 'Be Shamelessly You.'
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Studying myself, others and relationships started as a past time from as early as I can remember. This was due to 'spiritual experiences' in childhood (which I thought everyone had), the early trauma of being adopted (feeling half of me was missing) and NO conversations about sex or sexuality. This study of self in philosophy and psychology developed as a hobby outside of my educational work.
In 2015, counselling & psychotherapy became my full time profession. Now I am back teaching what I have learnt about sex, porn & relationships to protect children and to offer people personal and relational liberation.
After an relationship experience with a porn or sex addict (compulsive user of sex and porn), I focused all my attention in working out why I felt so broken and what the essence of a healthy, loving, meaningful partnership was.
I recognised I had multiple layers of sexual shame due to traumatic experiences as a child and adult. Part of this trauma was held dormant (Covert Trauma) due to a lack of education and communication around sex & sexuality. I was an uniformed sexual mute. It wasn't until I started talking about sex, addressing my body shame and creating an understanding around my erotic landscape that I felt LIBERATED.
This has led to lived and learnt expertise in the purpose of relationships and the function of sex & porn. As a result, I have a deep sense of compassion for both men and women who are caught up in trying to navigate relationships within a world of mixed messages related to sex, porn and communication. For children and young people, it is a very scary world as the increase in porn and general acceptance of highly sexualised media has created a sea of predators. Many men, in particular, are unknowingly 'stuck in mating'.
I ONLY OFFER WHAT I KNOW TO BE TRUE FROM EXPERIENCE.
Due to being adopted, I created a powerful inner critic with an extreme voice of comparison to avoid being rejected and abandoned again. This was mostly unconscious until it was dramatically revealed in full force through betrayal trauma. The chronic shame of being ME led to debilitating illness.
Another key reason why I am all about stripping back the layers created from the messages of life to ...
BE SHAMELESSLY YOU!
I am now healthy, contented and virtually trigger free even in the most challenging of situations - if you have a family these happen so learning to love the unexpected, finding wisdom within trauma and being able to self regulate quickly is essential for you and the whole of your family system.